Wednesday, May 21, 2008

You can't be serious.

I am really upset that the Court of Arbitration for Sport over-turned the International Association of Athletics Federation’s ruling that barred Oscar Pistorius from Olympic competition.


This may sound counter-intuitive to those of you who know me and know how I feel about the rights of differently-abled people. And trust me, I still believe in the importance of striving for an inclusive society, but I don’t think this decision is a step in the right direction. I think it is possible to err so far on the side of caution that harm is actually done.

Don’t know what I’m talking about? This is a pretty good summary, even though it is from Wikipedia (good thing I’m not being graded on this!):

Oscar Leonard Carl Pistorius (born 22 November 1986) is a South African Paralympic runner. Known as the "Blade Runner" and "the fastest man on no legs", Pistorius is the double amputee world record holder in the 100, 200 and 400 metres events and runs with the aid of Cheetah Flex-Foot carbon fibre transtibial artificial limbs by Ă–ssur. In 2007 Pistorius took part in his first international able-bodied competitions. However, his artificial lower legs, while enabling him to compete, generated claims that he has an unfair advantage over able-bodied runners. The same year, the International Association of Athletics Federations (IAAF) amended its competition rules to ban the use of "any technical device that incorporates springs, wheels or any other element that provides a user with an advantage over another athlete not using such a device". It claimed that the amendment was not specifically aimed at Pistorius. After monitoring his track performances and carrying out tests, scientists took the view that Pistorius enjoyed considerable advantages over athletes without prosthetic limbs. On the strength of these findings, on 14 January 2008 the IAAF ruled him ineligible for competitions conducted under its rules, including the 2008 Summer Olympics. This decision was reversed by the Court of Arbitration for Sport on 16 May 2008, the Court ruling that the IAAF had not provided sufficient evidence to prove that Pistorius's prostheses give him an advantage over able-bodied athletes. Although eligible to compete in the Beijing 2008 Olympic Games, Pistorius still has to qualify for the South African team.


All I can think about anytime I think about this (and trust me, I think about it more often than most!) is how I would feel if I were an Olympic runner that had to compete against Pistorius if he makes it to Bejing and if this decision is not, in turn, overturned. I am, and will always be, a coach’s daughter.

This is what doesn’t make sense to me: How can any one individual simultaneously qualify for the Paralympics and the Olympics? Aren’t these things mutually exclusive? Doesn’t qualification in one automatically disqualify you for the other? Am I the only one that feels this way?!

It’s a good thing Cohen Sr. is not around to see this. Letters would be written; radio talk-shows would be called; feathers would be ruffled; you can be sure. I guess I’m writing this to carry on the good fight.

Monday, May 19, 2008

Another GREAT Weekend!

Man, Los Angeles is agreeing with me!

Friday night some of SMS' school friends came over for dinner to help celebrate his birthday -- it was WICKED hot but we grilled anyway. Yum!

Saturday Mae got a clean bill of health -- no bladder stones! Good job, Mae!


Then I got some errands done and went to a Long Lake BBQ with L. Fun time and good food -- the best!


Saturday night SMS and I watched Lars and the Real Girl. Get that movie...now...it's ok...I'll wait...ok? Go get it...did you get it? Good.

Sunday we continued to celebrate SMS' birthday with brunch at Border Grill (so-so) and beach volleyball. This marked my first foray into team sports since 1987, yup 1987. That's over 20 years ago, which makes me so much older than I can comprehend. I wasn't very good, but everyone was very nice and I had a blast. I know I keep saying that and using exclamation points and all that annoying stuff, but it was a killer weekend!


Sunday night was another first -- I did Karaoke AND DIDN'T BOMB (apologies to DF, who I bombed with the last time I attempted to get up in front of people and sing!)! It was fun and funny and we had a blast at our friends' engagement/almost wedding party. A and A are both wonderful Jewish Educators who have been so helpful in our relocation -- their friends threw them a lovely Hawaiian themed Karaoke celebration and we partied in Encino like it was 1999 or 99 degrees (which it basically has been all weekend!).















Hope everyone is enjoying late spring as much as I am.

Monday, May 5, 2008

I am a very luck girl

These days I've been trying to remember how lucky I am. Anyone who knows me knows I tend to focus on the negative, the things that could be better (thanks mama!) but as I settle in out here, I've been trying to focus more on what is going right. The fact is, there are two ways to look at everything in life....

This weekend I had to work on Saturday morning -- you know what's great about that? No traffic! Free Bagels! Free Parking at the Santa Monica Promenade.

After work I went to the beach to watch some friends play beach volleyball. You know what's cool about that? I walked to the beach! I have neat friends out here! And I got up the courage to probably play next week, but only if SMS comes to and we can play on opposite teams (because I love playing meaningless games against him for some reason!).

I am a very lucky girl.